Held and Heard: How 20-Second Hugs and 6-Second Kisses Calm the Anxious Brain

Anxiety can leave your body in a constant state of tension, even when nothing is “wrong.” But research shows that practices like a 20-second hug or a 6-second kiss can actually calm the nervous system. These moments of intentional connection stimulate oxytocin release, lower cortisol, and activate the vagus nerve—helping your body shift from stress to safety. And if you’re single? Hugging yourself mindfully works, too. This blog explores how these small acts can have a big impact on nervous system regulation and emotional healing.