You Belong Here: Reclaiming Confidence from Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome doesn’t care how educated, experienced, or kind you are—it shows up anyway, whispering that you don’t belong. But here’s the truth: You do. You belong in the room, in the conversation, and in the life you’ve built. Confidence doesn’t come from perfection—it grows in motion, breath by breath, truth by truth.

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You’re Not Listening- And Honestly, Neither Am I: The Lost Art of Presence in a World That Won’t Shut Up

Presence isn’t just a nice-to-have. It’s a relationship skill—and one most of us forget to practice. In a world full of distractions, being truly present with someone is rare… and deeply healing. Whether it’s pausing to meet your child’s eyes or actually listening when a friend shares something tender, those small moments matter. They build trust. They build connection. And maybe—just maybe—they’re what the world needs most right now.

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Held and Heard: How 20-Second Hugs and 6-Second Kisses Calm the Anxious Brain

Anxiety can leave your body in a constant state of tension, even when nothing is “wrong.” But research shows that practices like a 20-second hug or a 6-second kiss can actually calm the nervous system. These moments of intentional connection stimulate oxytocin release, lower cortisol, and activate the vagus nerve—helping your body shift from stress to safety. And if you’re single? Hugging yourself mindfully works, too. This blog explores how these small acts can have a big impact on nervous system regulation and emotional healing.

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Trauma, Healing, Relationships, Self-Growth and Love Lindsay Stoffers Trauma, Healing, Relationships, Self-Growth and Love Lindsay Stoffers

Daring to Date Again: Rebuilding Trust After Emotional Trauma

“…I don’t have to explain why someone was cruel. I just have to keep going. To keep moving. To keep healing and growing—and to keep loving. And I suppose that also means daring to date again—trusting myself enough to open my heart, knowing I am no longer the person who accepts pain as love.”

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Empathy, Self-Growth and Love Lindsay Stoffers Empathy, Self-Growth and Love Lindsay Stoffers

The Power of Empathy: Why Showing Up for Others Changes Everything

"Empathy is different from sympathy. While sympathy is feeling sorry for someone, empathy is the ability to deeply understand and share in their feelings without judgment. It’s about stepping into their shoes, feeling their emotions, and offering a compassionate response. When we show up for others, we’re often showing up for ourselves in the process."

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